Here are a few Sarah Jakes Roberts quotes that continue to stay with me, the kind that find you exactly where you are, and quietly remind you that growth is still happening.

“The greatest character pursuit one can embark on is maintaining a teachable heart that strives for humility, grace, and understanding.”

“Despite the many tears that threatened to dilute it, your faith did not dissolve. Your heart is still pumping. Your pulse is a sign that this world needs you.”

“God wants your anger, suspicion, depression, aggression, frustration, bitterness, laziness, procrastination… God wants your truth, whatever it may be!”

“There’s nothing wrong with not having figured out who you are, but so much can go wrong when you pretend that you have.”

“Instant gratification often results in long-term disappointment. … Growth occurs when we confront our personal experiences and how they’ve changed us.”

Somehow she always finds the words, right? Which one’s your favourite?

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If this has been you lately, breathe. You’re not alone, and you’re not behind. You’re just on a different path.

It’s easy to feel delayed when you measure your pace against someone else’s story. But life isn’t a race, it’s a journey with personal lessons, divine timing, and unique breakthroughs. God is not slow concerning His promises, He’s intentional. The season you’re in right now might not be flashy, but it’s sacred. And He’s working: deeply, quietly, intentionally.

So, how do you fix that feeling of being behind?

Start by renewing your mind. Instead of saying “I should be further along,” try “God is still writing my story.” Get into the Word, remind yourself that delay is not denial. Romans 8:28 says all things work together for good; not some things, all.

Next, stay off timelines that steal your peace. Sometimes the best thing you can do is unfollow or mute the noise. Protect your heart. Your joy shouldn’t be shaken by someone else’s progress.

Also, pray intentionally about your restlessness. Don’t just bottle it up, lay it bare before God. He cares about your disappointments, your hopes, your comparison struggles. Invite Him into the tension.

And finally, celebrate your small wins. You may not be where you want to be, but you’re not where you used to be either. There’s beauty in the in-between, even when it’s messy and uncertain.

You’re not falling behind, you’re being refined. Trust the pace God has you on. He makes everything beautiful in its time.

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In a bold move, Sharon shaved her hair, symbolizing a fresh start. She’s embracing a drug-free lifestyle, anti-inflammatory practices, and, most importantly, leaning fully on her faith. Her courage reminds us that healing is as much about surrendering to God as it is about seeking solutions.

Sharon’s journey reminds us to trust God through challenges and surrender fully to Him.

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Tyler Perry brought the audience to it’s feet last night as he rendered one of the most impactful speeches ever, at the 2019 BET Awards.

The writer, producer, and  director was honored with BET’s Ultimate Icon Award. Taraji P. Henson, who has appeared in some of Perry’s films including The Family That Preys (2008), I Can Do Bad All By Myself (2009) and Acrimony (2018), presented him with the award.

In his powerful speech, Perry talked about how he grew up in an abusive household and that often, to make his mother laugh, he would imitate the women she played cards with. He also stated that those experiences allowed him to create his first 10 movies.

“That moment reminded me of my mother, bringing out of her pain with laughter, helping her cross,” he said. He added that he created those films in hopes of letting his mother know “she’s worthy, to let black women know you are worthy, you are special, you are powerful, you are amazing. All of that that was about helping her cross.”

He also spoke about building his Tyler Perry Studios in Atlanta and giving many African-American actors like Taraji P. Henson, Idris Elba and Viola Davies their big break, at a time when they couldn’t get acting gigs in mainstream Hollywood.

One major highlight from his speech was when he said:

“It’s all about trying to help somebody cross. While everybody else is fighting for a seat at the table, talking about ‘#OscarsSoWhite, #OscarsSoWhite,’ I said, ‘Y’all go ahead and do that. While you’re fighting for a seat at the table, I’ll be down in Atlanta building my own.’ Because what I know for sure is that if I could just build this table, God will prepare it for me in the presence of my enemies.”

Tyler Perry’s speech was met with a standing ovation. Watch his powerful speech in the video below:

Hard work really does pay off. We are so pumped right now by this speech! Our major takeway is this: If they don’t open the door for you then build a freaging door of your own Queens! Yassss

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But what happens when things don’t work according to our carefully-planned blueprint? 

Psychologist Uche Ukuku who holds a Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology from University of Georgia, and a PhD in Counseling/Psychology from University of Oklahoma, shares her story about valuable lessons learned during an unemployment phase in her life. 

Her story teaches us that sometimes, God makes us take detours on our journey so we may become stronger, wiser, and more equipped to handle the bigger blessings coming our way.

Read and be inspired!

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Today will be my first day at work after 5 and a half months of unemployment. I like sharing unfinished testimonies because they tend to be my most authentic ones.

When I finished my fellowship back in September I never imagined I would be out of work. Since the 6th grade, I’ve had my life planned out, go to college, get my doctorate, get licensed, work.

Up until September, everything was going as planned, no breaks, straight through. But then September came and for the first time in my life I had no plans. I was thrust into a waiting period for my psychologist license that took 5 months longer than I wanted and an emotional toll that I never expected. I interviewed for a couple of jobs. Jobs I knew God was not calling me to, but because I had a “vision” of how my career life was “supposed” to be. I didn’t get two of them and was offered one, but turned it down because I knew God said nah. But it was only October so I felt like it’s okay you got time.

Then October turned into November which turned into December. I kept hearing myself say okay God I think I’ve learned what you wanted me to learn, now you can make things shake. But still I heard nothing. I remember saying in December, there’s no way if they tell me I’ll have to wait to til the board meeting in February to get licensed that I will make it. Nope, God I will give up. Then January 3rd came. I contacted the licensing board on January 3rd and after they told me I would have to wait for the board meeting on February 12th, I broke down. I mean, hyperventilating, uncontrollable tears, unable to speak break down. I immediately sent out an SOS to my family and close friends saying I was defeated and in need of prayers. Because I’ve been blessed with such wonderful people they did just that (and my best friend ordered me cookies all the way from Atlanta). And almost immediately I felt covered in peace.

One of my friends told me that I was on her heart that morning and felt that there was something I hadn’t done yet in this waiting period that I needed to accomplish. I started wondering what could it possibly be I feel like I’ve learned patience (or so I thought), I’m in church… But then I finally realized that during this time I was relying on my own strength and it was tiring me out.

Daily I was pushing a ton of bricks not knowing that if I gave it to God the bricks would disappear.

Once I stopped operating on my own strength, I began operating within peace. People’s questions didn’t bother me and people began to comment how “at ease” I was not knowing had they talked to me a month prior I was a mess. But God. Over and over all I can say is But God. Looking back there were so many things I was able to accomplish because I was unemployed. I was able to be there for births and weddings, to babysit, share my faith while driving Lyft, become committed to my churches community, begin new relationships and strengthen old ones, help plan weddings, host people needing a place to stay. And there have been so many lessons I have learned in this time:

1. Pain and joy can co-exist
2. Never be ashamed to utilize the systems you’ve paid into
3. Well intentioned advice is not always good advice
4. Don’t come to God with more faith than you actually have—be honest
5. When you’ve spent majority of your adult life helping others with their self growth at the cost of your own, it doesn’t help anyone
6. But God, in my brokenness has made me whole

I’m not worrying about where I want to be when I now know where I need to be.

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