Too often, we only get to witness the unsavory bits about black and African fathers. It was great to see so many share loving stories of their fathers; we’re reclaiming the narrative, bit by bit.

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In the same breath, the day was particularly difficult for some whose fathers had either passed away or weren’t present through their childhood. For the single Mothers who had to play both roles, it was also a reminder of the grueling sacrifices they’ve made. So we decided to dedicate this post specifically to them.

Dear Single Mother,

Are you fretting? Are you worried that your child doesn’t have a present father and is incomplete as a result, in some shape or form? I want you to please breathe and know that this rhetoric is played out. You are enough.

Today, when the world celebrates present fathers, know that you are 2-in-1. You continue to play both roles seamlessly. My use of the word, ‘seamless’ was no mistake because to attempt to perform both roles in and of itself, is no child’s play. Yet, you continue to stretch yourself past your breaking points, you continue to cry yourself to sleep on those nights where you wished you had a partner but, you wake up with your game face on and take the responsibilities head-on. They don’t make them like you anymore. You are special. You are worthy and you are enough.

On a day like this, where it appears as though you are not seen, please know, that you are. You are priceless and we see all that you do and all that you are. Continue being a force of nature knowing that for every time the pain comes and it’s difficult to push through but you do anyway, you’re sending waves of encouragement and inspiration for every other single mom working to beat the odds.

In case you missed it the first time and the time after that, you are enough!!! Happy Father’s Day to you. We love you.

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In this particular clip, our favourite DIY girl reveals that her father’s support just might have been the reason why she is so good with her hands. She speaks about visiting the crafts market with him and he shares how those moments were truly precious to him.

Watch the video below:

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What are some of your favourite memories with your dad? Share them with us in the comments section below.

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The Groomer dad

He spends just as much time in front of the mirror as you do. He loves to keep his beard clean shaven and his hair well-trimmed.

Perfect gift Ideas include:

Philips Hair Clipper Series 3000 Home Clipper HC3100/13

Priced at N7,250 on Jumia, this shaver is a steal for that price and with a 1-year warranty, he’s bound to appreciate it.

Louis Will 4pcs Of Beard Mustache Care Kit For Men – Beard Comb, Natural Beard Balm (30g), Beard Oil (30ml), Portable Carrying Bag–Ideal Gift Set For Home And Travel

This beard care kit will make any groomer dad elated. It contains everything needed to help maintain a healthy beard – from a beard Balm to a beard oil,  perfect for beard conditioning to stop beard itch and flakes. It also contains a beard comb made of wood which is anti-Static and solid. It contains a carry pouch for easy transportation because which dad doesn’t look cool with a beard pouch at the barber’s?

Super gentle Leather Shoes-brown

Shoes are a trendy man’s best friend. The more fancy and unique it is, the better. That’s why this pair of coffee brown shoes are a winner. Get it at a huge bargain between ₦ 7,399 – ₦ 7,999 depending on the shoe size. It’s also wide-fit for the dad with big feet. 

The Foodie Dad

Try out these any of these three course meals at discounted prices courtesy of Deal Dey.

Three course Chinese meal

• Menu
  • Spring roll
  • Sweet corn soup
  • Meal 1: Diced chicken with chilli sauce (Served with either egg fried rice OR steamed rice)
  • Meal 2: Shredded beef and green pepper (Served with either egg fried rice OR steamed rice)
  • Ice cream

A three course meal at petit-paris Cafe

• Menu includes;
  • Option 1
    • Starter: Vegetable spring rolls
    • Main course: Chicken in curry sauce served with steamed rice
    • Dessert: Chocolate cake
  • Option 2
    • Starter: Sesame fish fingers
    • Main course: Jambalaya pasta | Pasta mixed with shrimp, sausage, green pepper & amp | Chicken in soy sauce
    • Dessert: Chocolate cake
  • Option 3
    • Starter: Chicken wings
    • Main course: Grilled Catfish served with your choice of (Yam | Plantain or potatoes)
    • Dessert: Chocolate cake

The brand teamed up with some really successful, masculine black fathers ahead of Father’s Day which is next Sunday, 17th June, to showcase the special relationship these dads have with their sons. The campaign entitled: #MyDadSmiles was a winner for us! Not only did it depict black dads in a new light, it made it look  so seamless for the macho dad to be a doting one too.

See some of the brand’s campaign photos below:

Watch some of the adorable campaign videos here.

Photo Credit: Shea Moisture