But here’s the truth: God’s timing is never rushed, and neither should you be. Balancing it all: career, love, and purpose without losing yourself starts with trusting His pace, not the pressure of timelines set by society or social media.

Your career? Give it your all, but don’t let it define you. Your dreams? Chase them, but don’t let them consume you. And love? It’s beautiful but it’s not a prize for getting everything else right. Christian dating advice isn’t about choosing between success and love, it’s about trusting that God’s plan can hold both.

The waiting season can feel frustrating, but it’s also a time of preparation. Maybe you’re learning patience, resilience, or how to fully embrace yourself before stepping into a new chapter. God doesn’t delay just to test you, He prepares you so that when your moment comes, you’re ready to handle it.

Also, let’s talk about peace. When you’re walking in alignment with God’s timing, there’s a different kind of confidence that comes with it. You don’t feel the need to rush or force things because you know what’s yours won’t miss you. That’s why the best thing you can do this season is to enjoy where you are, cultivate joy, and trust that God is still at work even when you can’t see it yet.

So instead of God, when?, what if the real question is God, how do I trust you here? Keep showing up, keep growing, and keep believing. What’s meant for you will come without you losing yourself to get it.

Visually, the film gets some things right. The cinematography and production design are solid, creating an immersive historical setting. But the storytelling? That’s where it loses me. The pacing feels uneven, jumping from one moment to the next without giving enough depth to Mary’s journey. Instead of feeling connected to her struggles and triumphs, I felt detached, like an outsider looking in.

The film also tries to humanize Mary, which is an interesting approach, but in doing so, it seems to strip away much of the grace and significance that make her story so powerful. Anthony Hopkins as King Herod had potential, but even his performance felt uninspired. The film had all the elements to be deeply moving, yet somehow, it just didn’t land.

I couldn’t finish it not because it was offensive or controversial, but because it felt hollow. A story as rich and layered as Mary’s deserves nuance, depth, and emotional weight, which this film, unfortunately, didn’t deliver. I give it a 5/10 for effort, but it just didn’t resonate the way it should have.

Would I recommend it? If you’re curious, sure. But if you’re looking for something that truly captures the essence of Mary’s journey, this might not be it.

Have you watched Mary? What did you think? Let’s discuss!

With a thriving community of over 116,000 women, Obis Ora isn’t just selling fashion, she’s building a sisterhood where women feel seen, empowered, and encouraged to embrace their style unapologetically.

Beyond curating stunning fashion pieces, she launched Wardrobe Merchant to ensure women have access to stylish, affordable clothing. Her platform connects customers with top fashion stores and exclusive bargains, making it easier for women to look their best without breaking the bank.

But fashion isn’t the only thing that defines Obis Ora—her faith is at the heart of everything she does. She openly shares her love for God and created Women Powered by God, a platform dedicated to uplifting and inspiring women in their faith journey. Through this space, she encourages women to lean into God’s purpose for their lives, reminding them that true confidence starts with Him.

Obis Ora’s impact on fashion and beauty has earned her recognition as one of Nigeria’s top brand influencers. She was also listed in Guardian Woman by YNaija and Leading Ladies as Nigera’s top 100 Most Inspiring Women for 2020, a testament to her influence in shaping how women see themselves. 

As Queen Moremi’s IT Girl of the Week, Obiamaka Oragwu reminds us that fashion is more than what you wear, it’s a statement of self-love, empowerment, and purpose.

Nigerian Star Actress, TV Host, and Luxury Lifestyle Influencer Idia Aisien, recently joined
an exclusive group of international influencers invited by Netflix for a special behind-the-
scenes experience on the set of Bridgerton in London. As the only Nigerian
influencer selected for this opportunity, Idia had the chance to explore the world of the
beloved series firsthand.

During the three-day VIP experience, Idia was granted an all-access pass to the world
of Bridgerton, where she explored the lavish set, engaged in exclusive conversations with the
official cast, and got a coveted first look at insider secrets about the upcoming season.

Not one to miss a fashion moment, she turned heads in a series of custom designer looks that
embodied the opulence and grandeur of the Bridgerton universe.

From intimate dinners with top influencers to one-on-one interviews with the stars of the
show, Idia seamlessly blended her signature elegance with sharp journalistic prowess, giving
her audience a taste of the regal world behind the beloved Netflix series.

Idia’s participation in this prestigious event highlights the growing influence of African talent
on the global entertainment and digital media scene. Her ability to seamlessly navigate both
Nollywood and international platforms continues to position her as a dynamic voice in film,
fashion, and storytelling, re-affirming her position as a rising global icon.

Stay tuned to Idia’s social media channels (@idia.aisien) for exclusive glimpses into
her Bridgerton experience and behind-the-scenes moments from the Netflix set.

Though she hadn’t publicly announced their birth, it was clear that Adichie had been quietly embracing this beautiful new chapter of motherhood. And at 47, it’s a powerful reminder that God’s timing is never late.

For many women waiting on the Lord for the blessing of children, Adichie’s story is one of hope and resilience. Sometimes, the journey looks different from what we imagined, and the waiting can feel long, but delay is not denial. God is still in the business of doing the impossible; her story is a testament to that.

Beyond this new chapter of her personal life, Adichie is also stepping back into the literary world with her upcoming novel, Dream Count. After a 10-year hiatus from fiction, she’s returning with a deeply moving story about four women navigating love, longing, and identity across Nigeria and the U.S. The book dives into themes of immigration, marriage, and women’s pressures, making it another thought-provoking addition to her body of work.

Chimamanda’s journey as a mother and a writer reminds us that there is no “perfect” timeline for life’s biggest blessings.  Whether you’re waiting on motherhood, a breakthrough, or a dream long buried, take heart: when the time is right, it will happen.

Chimamanda Adichie’s latest chapter is proof that God writes the best stories.

Valentine’s season is here—the flowers, the cute couple posts, the candlelit dinners. Love is in the air, but if you’re single, it might feel like the air is just… heavy. But here’s the thing, being single in Love Month isn’t a crisis. It’s not a waiting room where life is on pause until a relationship happens. And it’s not a punishment. It’s a season; like every season, it has its beauty.

The world can make it seem like February is reserved for couples, but honestly? This is the perfect time to fall deeper in love with your life. Romantic love is great, but it’s not the only love worth celebrating. Love exists in the way your friends hype you up, the warmth of family, the never-ending love of Christ, and the joy of doing what makes your heart happy. Love is everywhere—you just have to see it.

Instead of letting social media make you feel like you’re missing out, flip the script. Romanticize your own life. Take yourself out on a date, buy yourself flowers, and celebrate the love you already have. Being single isn’t about waiting for love to find you—it’s about embracing where you are, growing into the best version of yourself, and trusting that when the time is right, love will meet you there.

So, if you’re single this Love Month, own it. Enjoy it. And remember, your life is whole, beautiful, and worthy of celebration, relationship status aside.

1. Letters to Juliet (Apple TV – 1hr 45min)

A love letter lost for decades, a breathtaking trip to Italy, and a journey to reunite soulmates? Letters to Juliet is for the hopeless romantics who believe true love stands the test of time.

2. 13 Going on 30 (Netflix, Prime Video – 1hr 38min)

This classic is the perfect mix of romance and nostalgia! Jenna wakes up in her 30-year-old self’s body, only to realize that maybe growing up isn’t what she expected. And maybe… the love she’s always wanted had been right in front of her.

3. Forever My Girl (YouTube – 1hr 48min)

If you love a good second-chance romance, this one’s for you! A country music star ditches fame to return home, face his past, and try to win back the love of his life. Small-town love? Yes, please!

4. Fireproof (Apple TV, Amazon Video – 2hr 2min)

A firefighter fights to save more than just burning buildings—he fights for his marriage. This inspiring story reminds us that love is about effort, commitment, and sometimes, a little divine intervention.

5. Redeeming Love (Apple TV, Peacock TV – 2hr 14min)

Based on the bestselling novel, Redeeming Love by Francine Rivers. This is a deeply emotional story of love, faith, and second chances. If you love powerful, life-changing romance, this one will have you reaching for the tissues.

6. Someone Like You (Apple TV, Google Play Movies – 1hr 58min)

A grieving architect sets out to find his best friend’s secret twin, only to discover a connection he never expected. This one is a heartfelt mix of love, loss, and destiny.

7. I Still Believe (Apple TV, Prime Video – 1hr 56min)

Love, faith, and music collide in the true story of Christian music star Jeremy Camp. It’s a rollercoaster of emotions but ultimately proves that love and hope can survive even the hardest moments.

8. 2 Hearts (Apple TV, Amazon Video – 1hr 41min)

Two love stories, two different timelines, and one unexpected connection. 2 Hearts is for those who love fate-driven romances that remind us everything happens for a reason.

9. A Week Away (Netflix – 1hr 37min)

A Christian summer camp, an unexpected love story, and catchy songs that will have you singing along. This feel-good musical is perfect if you love lighthearted, faith-filled romance.

10. Purple Hearts (Netflix – 2hr 2min)

A marriage of convenience between a struggling singer and a Marine turns into something more when real emotions get involved. Love, heartbreak, and a little bit of military drama? Best believe we’re sat!

Whether you’re in the mood for a faith-filled romance, a classic rom-com, or a love story that defies all odds, these movies have you covered. Which one are you watching first? Let’s talk in the comments! 

When the Devil Wears a Robe

False prophets don’t show up looking like villains. They come with charisma, deep revelations, and sometimes even miracles but Jesus already warned us about this. Remember Matthew 7:15? “Beware of false prophets who come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ravenous wolves.” Translation? They look holy, but their hearts tell a different story.

Social media has only made things trickier. But Stephanie reminds us: God doesn’t call people based on social media engagement. In an era where social media can turn anyone into a “spiritual leader” overnight, the need for discernment is greater than ever. 

How to Spot the Fakes

Pastor Stephanie breaks it down, it’s not about how powerful someone sounds, but about the fruit they produce. Miracles, charisma, and powerful messages don’t always equal a true calling from God. The real question is, do their lives reflect humility, integrity, and a heart for God? 

Another warning sign? Manipulation. Many false teachers prey on desperation, promising breakthroughs, financial miracles, and life-changing prophecies, often in exchange for money. Real prophets lead people to Jesus, not to their bank accounts.

So, How Do you Stay Safe?

The answer is simple but powerful: Know God for yourself. If you’re constantly relying on prophets to hear God’s voice for you, it’s time to strengthen your personal relationship with Him. Read the Word. Pray. Listen to the Holy Spirit.

Stephanie leaves us with this: Real prophets bring people closer to God, not closer to themselves. They don’t just preach; they live out the gospel. So before you fall for the next “anointed” voice, ask yourself—does this person reflect Jesus or just perform for an audience?

At the end of the day, discernment is your best defense. Because while false prophets may rise, the truth will always stand.

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I really don’t know what’s up with some of our church brothers. But for those that are sincere and would like some useful tips on how to approach that attractive lady in church, read closely:

1. Get Active: Work for God:  One of the best ways to get to know people in church is through volunteering your time or talent. It gives you the chance to interact with different types of people as well as get closer to that lady you fancy.

2. Do not be a show off:  In a highly materialistic society, a church girl would typically want you to be conservative in your appearance.  Don’t try to impress them with your nice clothes or nice car or name dropping personalities you know in church. Sure they notice all those things but they don’t like it when that’s the all you lead with.

3. Do not be seeing unnecessary ‘visions’: I know the “spiricoco” ladies can come across as very serious. Yes, they want the serious intentions but not the overly spiritual approach – you know, “The lord showed me you are my wife” kind of approach. Stop it! Be relatable. Be normal.

4. Be intentional in your approach:  The last thing any woman wants is negative surprises or mixed signals. If/when you do ask her out on a date be open.

Example:

Open Approach:  “I enjoyed your worship session today, there is Nathaniel Bassey concert next weekend…would you like to attend”.

Vague Approach: “you’re a great soloist…I would love to see you praise and worship more. You are blessed.” Huh???

5. Do not stalk her: Even if you really, really, really like a girl, and Jesus told you personally that she is your wife, please do not stalk her. Meaning: Just because the pastor said “give your neighbor a hand shake” doesn’t mean you should cross the aisle to shake her hand OR deliberately sit next to her every Sunday.

In summary, brothers, to pursue a Christian girl, be intentional, be honest and don’t act crazy.

This isn’t just a song, it’s a revival. The lyrics are simple but powerful, reminding us that God’s favour isn’t something we’re chasing, it’s something we walk in. As the song flows, it feels like a celebration of divine breakthroughs.

The intensity builds, and before you know it, you’re declaring Power! Fire! Angels! It’s like a reminder of all the heavenly goodness surrounding us. Then Mercy comes in, and it hits differently: Mercy has washed away my sin and is opening doors for me. Now that’s grace in action.

The best part? The repetition makes it easy to get lost in worship, and you just can’t help but sing along. If you haven’t had a listen yet, you’re missing out. If you have, what part of Favour speaks to you the most? Let’s talk about it.