During that time, Scripture wasn’t just something I read; it became something I clung to. Certain verses felt like lifelines when I couldn’t find the words to pray. I’d write them down in my journal or tape them to my mirror as daily reminders that I wasn’t walking alone.

One verse that carried me was Isaiah 41:10: “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God.” It reminded me that even when I felt abandoned, I was still held.

Psalm 147:3 hit even deeper: “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” I read that over and over, sometimes through tears, just to remind myself that being broken wasn’t the end, healing was happening, even if slowly.

Another powerful one? Romans 8:28: “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him.” It didn’t mean everything suddenly felt good, but it reassured me that God was working through the mess.

Honestly, healing took time. Some days I was hopeful, other days I just wanted to hide under the covers. But Scripture gave me something solid to hold onto when everything else felt shaky.

If you’re in your own healing season, let me tell you this: you’re not weak for needing time. You’re not faithless for feeling pain. And you’re definitely not alone.

God is near to the brokenhearted. And sometimes, the softest whispers from His Word are exactly what carry us through.

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This program aims to equip women entrepreneurs with essential visibility and communication skills needed to stand out in Nigeria’s increasingly competitive digital and AI-driven business landscape.

Nigeria is home to one of Africa’s most vibrant SME sectors. According to the SMEDAN and National Bureau of Statistics report, SMEs account for 96% of all businesses in the country. Nigerian women are playing an increasingly significant role within this sector, with over 41% of micro-businesses and about 32% of SMEs led by women. In recent years, growth in female entrepreneurship has accelerated: A 2024 report indicated a 14.29% rise in women-led businesses, showing continued upward momentum despite economic challenges.

Furthermore, Nigeria consistently ranks among the world’s top countries for women entrepreneurs due to necessity-driven business creation. In many states, women form the backbone of local economies—running businesses across retail, agriculture, fashion, beauty, food production, logistics, wellness, and professional services. Yet despite this undeniable presence, visibility remains a major challenge.

In today’s digital marketplace, thousands of Nigerian SMEs compete each day for customer attention on social media, e-commerce platforms, and within highly crowded local industries. The rise of AI-driven content, automated advertising, and sophisticated digital branding has widened the gap between businesses that can tell compelling stories and those that cannot. Many women entrepreneurs-especially those running small, growing, or bootstrapped businesses-struggle with limited knowledge of PR, restricted networks, and the high cost of communications expertise.

Queen Moremi’s free PR training program is designed to close this gap by helping female founders:

• Craft compelling brand stories relevant to the Nigerian market
• Build visibility using digital media and community networks
• Understand press engagement and local media landscapes
• Leverage AI tools for content creation and customer engagement
• Increase profitability through stronger brand presence and trust

Speaking on the initiative, Moremi Elekwachi, Founder of Queen Moremi, says:

“Nigerian women are driving some of the most creative, resilient, and high-impact businesses in the country, yet many remain unseen in the markets they serve. In an age where digital visibility can determine business survival, our entrepreneurs need more than hard work – they need strategy, storytelling, and the confidence to be visible. This training will empower 5,000 women with the tools to elevate their brands, scale sustainably, and unlock new levels of profitability in 2026 and beyond.”

As more Nigerian women-led businesses gain visibility, they strengthen local economies, create jobs, and expand the country’s entrepreneurship landscape. Empowering female founders with PR skills is not only a business move – it is an investment in Nigeria’s economic future.

To apply for this program, fill out the application form here: https://forms.gle/tQRaMa7d9KPHzViN9

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Janiyah wasn’t crazy—she was crushed. A single mother fighting for her child, ignored by the system, stretched beyond human capacity. And while her actions were extreme, her exhaustion wasn’t. That’s what made it hurt. Because for many of us, Straw isn’t entertainment. It’s a reflection.

So many Christian women are silently carrying the weight of their homes, families, jobs, and ministries. We’ve learned how to smile through the stress, quote Scripture through the anxiety, and show up when we’re running on empty. But Straw shows what happens when a woman isn’t seen—until she breaks.

One question haunted me throughout the film: Where was the church? Where was the support system? The prayer circle? The intervention before the explosion?

We often tell women to be strong, to “have faith,” to pray it away. But prayer alone is not a replacement for help. God uses therapy. He works through community. He heals through conversation, not just silence.

Watching Straw reminded me that faith doesn’t mean pretending you’re okay. It means trusting God enough to admit when you’re not. Janiyah’s story may be fictional, but her pain is real for many women—even women of faith.

So if you’ve been pushing through, quietly struggling, or feeling invisible, let this be your reminder: You are allowed to rest. To ask for help. To fall apart and still be held by God.

Straw wasn’t just a film. It was a wake-up call—to look around, check in, and care deeply. Because nobody should have to reach a breaking point just to be heard.

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Here are six standout looks that turned heads on the BET red carpet while keeping it sleek, classy, and unapologetically bold.

Laila — Glamour in Wine and Gold

Laila stunned in a long, thin-strap gown that shimmered with gold undertones and was delicately adorned with rich wine-hued patterns. The silhouette was classic, yet the intricate print added a regal feel that was both artistic and ethereal. Her styling stayed minimal, letting the dress speak volumes.

Moliy — Gold, Sequined & Radiant

Moliy brought sunshine and sparkle to the carpet in a bright gold full-length dress covered in sequins. The gown hugged her figure beautifully, catching the light with every movement. Her joyful energy made the look even more radiant, proving you don’t need to bare it all to make a bold entrance.

Jennifer Hudson — Classic Drama in All Black

Jennifer Hudson exuded quiet power in a long-sleeved black gown featuring a tasteful thigh-high slit. The dress balanced coverage and allure effortlessly, and paired with her signature confidence, it felt like old Hollywood with a modern, soulful twist. Simple heels completed her timeless look.

Jordin Sparks — Peach Perfection

Jordin Sparks was a vision of softness and sophistication in a long peach gown with elegant sleeves and a flowing hem. The color complemented her skin beautifully, and the modest neckline allowed her glowing complexion and warm smile to take center stage. It was understated, but unforgettable.

Giveon — Clean Lines in White

Giveon brought quiet luxury to the men’s side of the carpet in a crisp white double-breasted suit, paired with matching pants. The look was sleek, tailored, and refreshingly minimalist—proof that menswear can still wow without going over the top. He kept accessories light, letting the silhouette do the work.

Kevin Hart — Black Tie with Personality

Kevin Hart kept things classic in a black suit paired with a crisp white shirt and a neat bow tie. The fit was sharp, the tailoring on point, and the overall vibe gave old-school charm with a modern edge. Sometimes, simplicity really is the ultimate style move.

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She shared these stunning looks as she celebrated her special day:

Veekee James’ journey is a powerful grass-to-grace story rooted in faith, resilience, and divine transformation. Raised in humble beginnings in Akwa Ibom, Nigeria, Veekee grew up with limited resources but an abundance of creativity and deep trust in God. From selling clothes with her mother in local markets to designing couture gowns worn on global stages, her rise in the fashion industry is nothing short of miraculous. Through every challenge, Veekee remained vocal about her dependence on Jesus, often sharing how her faith guided her through rejection, financial struggles, and self-doubt. Today, she stands as one of Nigeria’s most celebrated fashion designers, using her platform to glorify God and inspire young women to dream boldly, work diligently, and trust completely in God’s plan.

What is even more admirable about Veekee’s walk with Christ, is her passion for leading her fans and followers to Jesus. The Veejay Army is her passionate and ever-growing community of supporters, fans, and believers who rally behind Veekee James—not just for her stunning fashion creations, but for the powerful spiritual message her life represents. More than just admirers of her work, the Veejay Army embodies a movement of faith, excellence, and purpose. Many are drawn to her unapologetic love for Jesus, her boldness in expressing her faith in the fashion world, and her transparency about her journey from humble beginnings to global recognition. The Veejay Army uplifts her brand and ministry, often engaging with her content, sharing her story, and showing up in full force—whether it’s at fashion shows, online prayers, or social media campaigns. Together, they reflect a new generation of creatives and believers who aren’t afraid to mix style with spirituality, proving that success can be both glamorous and God-led.

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So, what’s behind this shift? Why is prayer becoming public again?

At its core, it reflects a deep hunger for connection. In an age of anxiety, busyness, and digital noise, people are turning to prayer as a source of peace. And surprisingly, they’re not keeping it to themselves. They’re sharing it, hoping to offer others the same comfort and clarity they’ve found.

On TikTok, creators post 30-second prayers for healing, peace, and direction. Some kneel. Some cry. Others speak softly into the camera, inviting viewers to close their eyes and join in. 

It’s not about performance, it’s about presence. These short clips often go viral, not because they’re polished, but because they’re real.

Prayer is becoming a way to connect, not just with God, but with one another.

And maybe this shouldn’t surprise us. In the Bible, we see examples of public prayer. 

Jesus praying in front of His disciples, the early church gathering together, Paul and Silas lifting up songs and prayers in prison. 

Yes, we’re warned against performative prayer (Matthew 6:5), but public prayer, when done from a sincere heart, has always been part of Christian life.

Today’s generation isn’t replacing the church, they’re expanding how faith is expressed. Social media is simply the new gathering place.

If you’ve ever hesitated to pray out loud or share your spiritual journey online, you’re not alone. But your prayer might be exactly what someone else needs to hear. It might remind them they’re not alone. That God still listens. That faith still matters.

So whether you pray in your journal, over a voice note, or in front of a camera, pray. Let your prayer be authentic. Let it be light in a noisy world.

Because prayer was never meant to be hidden. It was always meant to be heard.

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Let’s clear the noise. Here’s some honest, God-centered dating advice that actually makes sense.

1. You Don’t Have to Know on the First Date

Dating with intention doesn’t mean every conversation has to be about marriage, kids, and calling. Breathe. The point of dating is to discern, not to decide immediately. Ask good questions. Be present. Pay attention. Trust God with the rest.

2. Boundaries Are a Gift, Not a Punishment

Boundaries aren’t there to restrict your fun, they protect your heart, your body, and your relationship with God. Emotional and physical boundaries help you build trust, not tension. Talk openly about what boundaries look like for both of you and why they matter.

3. You Can Be Honest Without Oversharing

Transparency is key, but timing matters. You don’t have to share your whole life story on date. Be real, but don’t feel pressured to spill everything at once. Vulnerability should grow with trust.

4. Attraction Isn’t Shallow, It’s Part of It

Yes, character matters most. But physical attraction isn’t worldly. it’s part of how we’re wired. Just don’t let looks outweigh prayer, peace, and purpose.

5. You’re Not Behind if You’re Still Waiting

There’s no age limit on love, and singleness is not a curse. Whether you’re dating, healing, or in a “what is this even?” situation, God’s timing is personal and perfect. Don’t let pressure from the church, your timeline, or your friends rush you.

You don’t need a checklist. You need clarity, peace, and a connection that honors God. Real love grows in honesty, not hype. Trust God and trust yourself too.

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The use of ‘aso ebi’ (uniform fabrics) at parties and other events is commonplace in some parts of the country, particularly in the South-West. However, there have been divided opinions about how much ‘aso ebi’ should cost, as some have been deemed to be too expensive. Saturday PUNCH asked a cross-section of Nigerians how much they think is too much to pay for ‘aso ebi’. Here are their responses:

N20,000 is too much for ‘aso ebi’ – Bola Olarere

Most of the time, we try to impress other people by doing things that add little or no value to us. The idea of ‘aso ebi’ has gone beyond its original purpose. For instance, it is called ‘aso ebi’, and therefore, it should strictly be for the family member (Ebi). However, because many people want to commercialise their events; they pressurise their friends to partake in things that are meant for only family members. I don’t really like the idea of buying ‘aso ebi’ irrespective of how cheap or expensive it is. I believe it puts too much pressure on people and it is a form of show-off. I have friends whose wardrobes are filled with several uniform fabrics that they do not need. People should be allowed to choose the type of cloth they want for an event. If someone should tell me their ‘aso ebi’ is N20, 000; I would decline.

Between N3,000 and N5,000 is fine – Nweke Chigozie

To me, ‘Aso ebi’ is a Yoruba tradition which has been adopted by other tribes. Today, intending couples try to raise funds for their wedding by selling ‘aso ebi’ and they impose it on their friends and families at a very high price. People who do this see weddings as avenues to generate funds rather than the real essence of the ceremony, which is to celebrate marital bliss. No one should impose ‘aso ebi’ on anyone. If friends want to celebrate with someone, the fabric should range  from N3, 000 to N5, 000 depending on the quality of the fabric. Anything higher than this is too much. Forcing people to buy ‘aso ebi’ is wrong and selfish. Wedding ceremonies, for example, is an invitation for people to be merry and raise funds.

It should not cost more than N55, 000 – Oladimeji Daniel Adeoye

The use of ‘aso ebi’ in our society is now seen as a form of competition.  Some people are ashamed if they can’t buy ‘aso ebi’ for an event. There is no need to force the use of ‘aso ebi’ on friends. When friends are forced to use ‘aso ebi’ and they are not rich enough to afford it, they may be constrained to get loans to get it. Personally, I think the highest amount ‘aso ebi’ should go for is around N50, 000 to N55, 000. When it’s getting beyond this price range, I will back out.

Above N50, 000 is not okay – Sontyo Jimin James

Spending N50, 000 on ‘aso ebi’ is fine, in my view. I have bought at that price and below it but may not likely buy if it costs more. People should not be forced to buy ‘aso ebi’ but the problem is that individuals are forced to buy it indirectly, because of friendship, for example, even when they don’t want it. Most of the time, ‘aso ebi’ is usually not of good quality; it is used as a fundraising mechanism. I have never been forced to buy ‘aso ebi’; I do it for friendship sake. However, it gets annoying when the person in charge of collecting money repeatedly reminds you of making payments for the fabric.

Anything above N30, 000 is unreasonable – Freeman Adeshina   

‘Aso ebi’ is traditionally worn in Nigeria and some West African countries as an indication of cooperation and solidarity during ceremonies and festive periods. Social media has ‘hyped’ the importance of ‘aso ebi’, the value and the price too. Most times, the market price of ‘aso ebi’ depends largely on how much it will cost. But I have seen cases where the couple makes the price too outrageous in order to make profit from it; that is bad. The price of ‘aso ebi’ should be kept minimal irrespective of how rich you are; it’s not a competition, there is a high possibility that one might not wear it again or for a long time. I can’t say precisely how much ‘aso ebi’ should cost, but selling ‘aso ebi’ above N30,000 is unreasonable. Also, it shouldn’t be forced on anybody because people’s financial capabilities differ.

N80, 000 is too much – Adekunle Oreoluwa

Personally, I feel N80, 000 is too much for ‘aso ebi’. Though it’s good for your friends to look very good on your big day, I don’t think one has to break the bank to get a nice fabric. There are very beautiful and affordable fabrics in the market.   The least amount I can spend on ‘aso ebi’ is N4,500 and it has to be ankara to be that cheap. Being cheap doesn’t mean the quality would be bad but the important thing is for it to be nice. I really do not feel ‘aso ebi’ is necessary, we all have plans and budget so if it’s not within my budget and it’s not convenient for me, I feel I should be allowed to wear what I can afford. At the end of the day, my presence at the event is all that matters; it’s not about buying ‘aso ebi’. As long as I am celebrating with them, I feel it’s a thing of joy. I have never been forced to buy ‘aso ebi’.

No amount is too much-Beatrice Okunato

‘Aso ebi’ is meant to distinguish the person celebrating an occasion and the family members from the others. However, these days, it is for everybody and people joyfully buy them to connect with the celebrant and show they appreciate and share in their joy.

I really do not think there is an amount that is too much to spend on ‘aso ebi’ as the cost and quality depend on the social class of the celebrant. One should know that any ‘aso ebi’ that costs more than your purse or social class is too much for you. I buy ‘aso ebi’ mostly when the event is within my family circle. It depends on my relationship with the celebrant and my purse. People should budget for things like ‘aso ebi’ based on convenience and the opportunity cost of other pressing needs within the family. You must not force your ‘aso ebi’ on people. By doing so, you just might be causing problems for friends and family members who are to rejoice with you.

N25, 000 and above is outrageous

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People now use this tradition to enrich themselves. How can you organise a wedding, for instance, and want your ‘aso ebi’ to be sold for N25, 000 and above? It is outrageous.

A reasonable amount for ‘aso ebi’ should cost around N5, 000 to N10, 000 at most so that people won’t die paying debts because they bought ‘aso ebi’ for a friend’s wedding. In 2017, someone in my church was getting married and the ‘aso ebi’, which was meant to be used to sew ‘agbada’ (flowing gown), was N35, 000. A man in the church, in a bid to feel like part of the group, bought the ‘aso ebi’. He was a school bus driver and his salary was N40, 000.

He allowed himself to be put under pressure and he incurred debts. He has relocated to his village and I heard he owed a lot of people before he left. To me, ‘aso ebi’ should not be forced on people because it tends to put them under pressure.

Above N10,000 is too much – Chizoba Olugbue

From my little understanding of ‘aso ebi’, it is fabric that is sold to relations and friends attending an event so that they can look uniform there. However, these days, some people use it to generate money for the occasion; some people also go for expensive fabrics just to show off their economic class. It is supposed to be sold at moderate prices so that everyone involved would be able to afford it, especially if the event is a burial. For example, if it is a wedding or ordination, I can buy ‘aso ebi’ worth N10,000; but if it is above that, I may not buy it. So the least amount I can spend on ‘aso ebi’ is N1, 000 and the highest is N10,000. It is not wise to impose it on people because you don’t know their budget at that particular time. There was a time one of my friends brought ‘aso ebi’ for her grandmother’s 100th birthday to me. Fortunately, I had same ankara fabric so I told her that I would not be able to buy it but I would support her with whatever I had. She was angry; she left my house and refused to talk to me again, even at the event. I gave her an envelope containing N5, 000; my husband even bought one carton of expensive wine for her husband but she still refused to talk to me for a long time.

N50, 000 is too much- Olagbemide Damilola

The highest amount of money I can spend on a uniform outfit depends on my financial status at the time. However, in all honesty, I don’t think there is a particular amount that should be labeled as the least. The most important thing is to cut your coat according to your cloth.

In my opinion, it is not mandatory that one should use ‘aso ebi’ for a party and it is also not compulsory that one should buy. I think N50,000 is too much for ‘aso ebi’. I will totally decline to buy a fabric like that in my present state.

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