Sometimes, you just need a day (or weekend) that’s all about you and your girls. No pressure. No expectations. Just pure fun, love, and good vibes. Whether you’re single, dating, or married, there’s something special about time spent with your girlfriends—it’s healing, refreshing, and always filled with laughter.
If you’re looking for ways to connect with your girls that feel safe, fun, and God-honoring, here are 10 cute and chill activities to try:
- Host a Cozy Girls’ Night In
Think matching pyjamas, scented candles, hot chocolate, and your favourite rom-coms or clean chick flicks. Throw in a “no phone” rule to really be present. - Plan a Faith & Vision Board Brunch
Gather the girls, bring old magazines, and create vision boards together while discussing your goals, dreams, and how God is leading each of you. - DIY Spa Day at Home
Facials, foot soaks, hair masks, and gospel or Afro-soul music playing in the background? Yes, please. Bonus: It’s budget-friendly and super relaxing. - Attend a Women’s Conference or Retreat Together
From worship nights to Christian empowerment events, experiencing spiritual growth together hits different. It also gives you lots to reflect on later over lunch or jollof. - Try a Themed Picnic in the Park
Pick a colour, dress up, bring snacks, a portable speaker, and take lots of pictures. Play card games or do a mini Bible study under the sun. - Plan a Dinner & Test New Recipes
Everyone brings something they’ve never made before. It’s a fun way to bond, try new meals, and share laughs when things don’t go exactly as planned. - Create a Shared Book Club or Bible Study Group
Choose a book (fiction or spiritual), meet weekly to discuss, and let conversations flow. Sometimes, what starts as book talk ends in life talk. - Take a Cute Skill Class Together
Perfume making, painting, candle-making, or dance—explore something random and creative just for the vibes. It’s not about perfection, it’s about joy. - Plan a Dress-Up & Photoshoot Day
Pull out your modest baddie outfits and head somewhere pretty for a full-on photoshoot. Hype each other up and remind your girls they’re that girl. - Have a “Prayer & Praise” Night
End a long week with worship music, open hearts, and encouragement. It doesn’t have to be super formal—just intentional time to pour into one another.
Girl time doesn’t have to be expensive or complicated. Sometimes the most memorable moments are the simplest ones—filled with laughter, deep chats, a little dancing, and a whole lot of love. Whether you’re catching up on life or just chilling in silence with someone who gets you, these are the moments that refill your cup.
So, text the group chat. It’s time for a no-boys-allowed link-up. 💅🏾✨
